I’m a very beautiful Kenyan lady aged 27 years old, I’m married to this very good and loving and handsome Kisii guy who is 28 years old.
The problem is we have been trying to conceive since 2018, we have seen a gynecologist and all tests prove I’m normal no issues with infertility whatsoever.
I don’t have any issue at all, but he was diagnosed with low sperm count (2 million) and poor sperm motility – refers to the ability of the sperm to move efficiently.
He has been on medication for 4 months now and nothing is coming up, every month I see my menses I get broken and feel the so much pain.
Every time we visit his home his mom and aunts stare at my stomach, also from my family are pestering me, they tell me it’s time to have kids.
Now I feel like cheating on him and getting a baby then we raise the baby together without his knowledge but I’m so afraid.
What if he finds out? Will I be able to carry this secret for a lifetime? Has anyone here been in this situation? Is it worth it?
I love him dearly but I also yearn to be a mother so much. If he fails to impregnate me I will surely look for a random man to knock me up and go back to my husband to raise the baby with him. I won’t tell him the baby is not his.