Hello, am in my early thirties. I have been in an off and on relationship for about six years. My confession is that I have never had an orgasm when having sex with a man.
The guy in my life is a one minute man, the torture is short lived. I have had sex with five other men but when it’s all done, I am left feeling harassed, tired and wondering if it is the same for other women.
I am becoming grossed out by sex and of late I have been giving the guy in my life excuses so as not to have sex. Sometimes I lie that I have travelled and lock myself in the house for an entire weekend.
Problem is I cannot tell him about it because the lie has been lived for too long and I do not see a future with him. I have thought of trying to go out to find a man who can fulfil me, even if it’s just once but I hesitate as I do not want to have to sleep with say 100 to find the elusive 1. . . .
